{"id":291,"date":"2015-12-11T16:46:07","date_gmt":"2015-12-11T16:46:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brooksidepress.org\/ob-ped\/?page_id=291"},"modified":"2023-08-20T22:14:04","modified_gmt":"2023-08-20T22:14:04","slug":"4-10-prevention-of-child-abuse","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/brooksidepress.org\/ob-ped\/lessons\/lesson-4-child-abuse\/4-10-prevention-of-child-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"4-10. PREVENTION OF CHILD ABUSE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Child abuse is a complex problem, and American society must deal with\u00a0preventing the problem.<\/p>\n<p>Reacting to the problem of child abuse after it occurs is costly\u00a0in terms of human suffering and dollars. Today, there are many individual instances of\u00a0effort to prevent child abuse and many child abuse prevention programs. A common\u00a0factor in many of these programs has been to identify situations or circumstances in\u00a0which abuse is likely to occur.<\/p>\n<p>a. <strong>Programs\/Groups for Prevention<\/strong>. New groups and programs are being\u00a0formed. Listed below are some child abuse prevention groups and programs now in\u00a0existence.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(1) Parent-aides. Parent-aides are individuals trained to work with troubled\u00a0parents. The aides listen to parents who are troubled by the stresses of life (caring for\u00a0children being one of those stresses). These aides help the parents learn to deal with\u00a0the stress of caring for and nurturing a child. The troubled parents are also taught that\u00a0there are other ways of solving their own problems, means other than abusing their\u00a0children.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(2) Parents Anonymous (PA). Parents Anonymous is a national group with\u00a0more than 600 chapters. This self-help group provides these services: support network\u00a0for abusive parents, an organization for socialization for such parents, and a wide range\u00a0of information about parenting. The nature of PA groups is different from chapter to\u00a0chapter, depending on the individuals who make up the group. On the whole, a Parents\u00a0Anonymous chapter helps abusive parents understand their problem by seeing the\u00a0same problem and behaviors in others. This group approach can help an abusive\u00a0parent change his own attitude and treatment of his child.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(3) Public education and awareness programs. Local school systems,\u00a0social agencies, church groups, etc. can and have initiated programs for the general\u00a0public that seek to give knowledge about child rearing. These programs give resources\u00a0for parents to use when they start to abuse their children. Many high schools and\u00a0colleges offer classes on how to be a parent. Such programs are relatively inexpensive\u00a0and very beneficial in preventing child abuse.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(4) Observation of parent-infant interactions. Studies have shown that\u00a0observing mothers and infants can indicate whether the infant will be physically abused\u00a0or neglected. Primary care physicians and other health care personnel can observe the\u00a0way mothers treat their infants, develop skill in making these observations, and\u00a0subsequently find help for those parents who seem to lean toward child abuse.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(5) &#8220;Immunization&#8221; of children against abuse. There have been programs in\u00a0recent years which try to teach children how to react to one form of abuse&#8211;sexual\u00a0abuse. Such programs have been presented to very young children in school settings.\u00a0The goals are to define sexual abuse for the child and teach the child what to do if\u00a0someone tries to abuse him.<\/p>\n<p>b. <strong>Common Sense Rules for Children<\/strong>. Teach children how to protect\u00a0themselves against sexual abuse. Children who are old enough to understand can be\u00a0taught these common sense rules.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(1) Be alert. Tell children to be aware of the behavior of other people and to\u00a0be careful. Children should remember:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(a) Don&#8217;t believe strangers who tell the child they were sent by the\u00a0child&#8217;s father or mother to pick the child up.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(b) Avoid being alone with any person who wants to touch the child in a\u00a0sexual way.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(c) Don&#8217;t be too trusting. Avoid contacts with strangers or other adults\u00a0who seem suspiciously friendly: don&#8217;t accept gifts, don&#8217;t let anyone touch him, don&#8217;t let\u00a0a strange adult join in play.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(2) Avoid dangerous situations. Tell children how to avoid letting others\u00a0take advantage of them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(a) Don&#8217;t play alone in deserted areas or use public restrooms along.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(b) Don&#8217;t open the door at all when you are home alone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(c) Don&#8217;t talk to people you don&#8217;t know on the telephone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(3) Discuss problem encounters with parents. Request that your children\u00a0tell you if anything like the following occurs:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(a) Any unusual or suspicious sexual behavior the child has seen or\u00a0experienced.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(b) If a friend leaves with someone whose behavior seems suspicious.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(c) If the child feels uncomfortable about being alone with someone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(4) What to do if the child is approached or abused. A child should be\u00a0taught not to obey an abuser, unless the abuser threatens the child physically. Instead,\u00a0the child should:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(a) Try to run away if someone tries to abuse the child sexually.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(b) Say NO if anyone tries to abuse the child sexually.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(c) Tell the abuser that he (the child) will tell someone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(d) Find help from someone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(e) Tell an adult what has happened as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(f) Remember when and where the incident happened.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">(g) Understand that he (the child) is NOT guilty if abused; the incident\u00a0was NOT the child&#8217;s fault.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Child abuse is a complex problem, and American society must deal with\u00a0preventing the problem. Reacting to the problem of child abuse after it occurs is costly\u00a0in terms of human suffering and dollars. Today, there are many individual instances of\u00a0effort to prevent child abuse and many child abuse prevention programs. A common\u00a0factor in many of these &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/brooksidepress.org\/ob-ped\/lessons\/lesson-4-child-abuse\/4-10-prevention-of-child-abuse\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">4-10. 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